Lets talk Black

Someone just asked me yesterday why black women are so angry! Well thats a good question but sad enough I didnt have the answer because I really do not fall into that stereotype. Ok I do have my "moments" where am just moody, agitated, ( yes we all do.so dont even think about judging me)..whatever but am not an angry person! But that question really made me think..hhmmm you know what? this is something juicy to blog about..just black people in general.

I have my own gripe about black men..but oh well..that requires a whole year for me to vent about "those" men. So yeah back to angry black women....not all black women are angry but some of them are. Its almost like "we" ( i use we because am black, but not because am full of drama...) always have our defenses up...."what did you say? Did she just?... oh Hell NAW!!!! Tasha..hold my purse while i take care of biznizz"...*walk towards individual and snaps her fingers with fake nails*..."Now you listen up B***...you do not...."...yeah we have all seen this stuff....Now theres is a difference between being a no nonsense kinda girl and just being plain old full of drama. Some people need to chill. Theres more to life than popping gum, snapping fingers rolling eyes and twirling your bad weave. CALM THE DEUCE DOWN!!! ITS NOT THAT BAD OK???!!!

SO how about the black women who always complain about "I don't got a man"..well have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, if you opened up to dating other races you would have a man? Listen...am not trying to bash your preference..coz I know some women who straight up just lke chocolate. NO VANILLA!! and thats ok! but If you dont have a man right now..just calm down..MR right is coming..he just got lost or maybe he stopped at popeyes to getchu some fried chikin ok? Ok seriously..alot of us (irregardless of race) tend to just over complain about being single and we get desperate. SO what happens when you get desperate? you settle for anything with a tail and you end up being hurt! Love takes time...gosh dont I just know this oh too well now! Do not rush. Keep it cool. Pray about it and you will find mr right. stop falling for these hood rats!!! And I know some girls are bitter coz some guy cheated on her and she just thinks all men cheat! well technically they do (oh boy) But Not really....do you get it? ah whatever! and uuuuuuuu here is some advice to all my sistas : I know we all wanna have this "I dnt take sh*t from men" kinda attitude and we go overboard with it. hence when we even find out that "he" was cheating on you with "her" we call "her " up and try and start drama...NOOOOOOOOOOO. Let her have him!!!! ITs good to donate to charity once in a while! JEEZ!

You know whats funny tho? Most black men DO NOT like intelligent, confident BLACK women....hmm I wonder why? well I think its coz opposites attract!!...NO offense but its kinda true. Its ridiculous!!SO what happens? Ladies will lower thier standards just so to attract this one BROAD!!!!..FREEEEAAAKKKK THAT!!!! Stop the madness.

So this one if for all black people in general : stop complainin about race ALL the time! yes I know its hard being a black person in America but truly speaking..must everythiung that doesnt go your way have to be blamed on race? hmmm thats something for you to think about!

Oh well...Its bed time for me. I could jibber jabber all night long about black people and their stereotypes! I just need to write a book. oh before I sleep...so one of my homeboys called me up tonight and was like he wants to set up a blind date for me! am like what the deuce man? Now I have never been on a blind date but am not too crazy about em either. Number one...am just a weird kinda girl. I am just easily amused but not easily impressed. It takes alot to get on my O WOW list. But again...I tend to be attracted to guys that are just bad news for me. I mean for realz...the kind of guys that put D is dissaster. The ones your mama warned you about....YEA THOSE! and right now am at a point where getting in a sertious relationship is not on top my list. I just wanna kick it and have fun for a lil bit...with normal people not creepers!!! so my conclusion: NO BLIND DATE!! ugghh that sounds mean...Ok to be fair I will pray about it and see what God says! I just hate first dates...so uncomfortable and...ggrrrrrrr

announcement : Pls pls pls..am beggin you...do not give out my number to your friends in a ttempt to try and hook me up. no no no.that mess has resulted into my life being miserable coz I have STALKERS!!!! NO BUENO!!! consult with me before giving out my number coz am done with this fiznuck!!!

My Bday is coming up!!!!! nuff said!!! Lets just say am ready to boogie woogie!!!!!!

Big shout out to my homeboy LEWIS!!! ...good stuff  happening to him right now but I cannot share (sorry guys!) GOD JUST OPENED THOSE SHOWERS OF BLESSING IN HIS LIFE!!!
Am soo happy for you buddy!!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!! ♥♥...AAWWW Am too excited and it aint even my life! but thats what friends are for right????.............. RIGHT!!!!!!!

song of the day.."gonorrhea" by lil waybe featuring Drake!