Relationship Ponderings

She is the definition of unique. Outgoing but introverted, loves music, funny, bubbly but quiet sometimes. Sort of that southern Belle. He was tall, spanky, sponteneous, sweet, loving, caring, romantic...well atleast thats what she thought. They were both college students so they met at school. Was it love at first sight? NOOOOOOOOO WAAAYYYY. Infact she was NOT attracted to him. After several "first date turn downs", He finally worked his magic and Viola' She showed up at his doorstep for a "date". She wore this Pretty floral black and white short, flare dress with a black Sweater blazer and black 6 inch heels....Yes she is a very girly girl and heels are a staple in her closet. Her hair was in a bun with side bangs, foundation and eyeshadow were on point. NO lipstick..can't be daring on a first date..just lip gloss..yes girl make those lips pop out!!! Mascara could not be forgotten, and How about the purse? It was black and burgundy.

She pulled up, heart racing, nervous coz yeah even though they'd been talking and txting for the past 10 days..she still wasnt sure what was gonna happen. He was outside waiting, showed her where to park. What was he wearing? regular jeans and a sweatshirt...uuhhh ok...weren't you expecting a GIRL? Dude atleast look decent. ..anyways..she didnt mind coz at this point she was kinda attracted to him anyways...They hugged, he smelled delicious. that cologne was ON POINT. So, before this whole "hangout" or "date" was planned..he has said he would cook dinner for her. She walks in..NO FOOD!! *cricket chirps*...uuhhm its ok.. He offers to buy her pizza she refuses...coz she was tryna be cool.

So they sat, and talked. They listened to music too...not just any music..good love songs. See, he knew what she liked and thats exactly what he pounced on. Here she is going awwww...he is the best!!!...YEAH GIRL THATS COZ YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF YET. and then outta nowhere he tells the girl to close her eyes...ok now open em..WOW!!!! Beautiful necklace..aawwww...now at this point she was SOLD!! This N**a didnt cook but he got me a Present..yeah in your face!! It looked expensive too....lets just say that was the birth of a relationship.
She loved him dearly...This Chic done lost her mofo mind coz she thought she found "the one".  She even brought him home to Mama. A few people warned her..she never listened. She stood ber her so called man and defended him at all times even when he clearly was acting like an a$$hole. Now she saw some redflags but she ignored em ALL coz in her mind she just said oh no one is perfect. She put up with his ever changing moods, anger problems, partying, ego issues..you name it. There were times where they would makes plans and he would stand her up on these dates. Then it slowly went from calls everyday to no calls, strictly txts..then the texts turned into no communication at all. A TON of broken promises...am not talking about silly woof woof promises..am talking MAJOR promises...then it finally dawned on her that this so called relationship is just a mere joke. Things went  sour in a matter of months. He treated her like CRAP, and the relationship ended.

She was hurt..why? coz she genuinely loved this guy. she was there for him when he needed help and loved him for who he was. On the other hand...he was just on one of his rounds. He could have cared less. why? coz he has endless chics lined up to be with him. She was nothing to him but a pawn. A frikkin Pawn. Now its hard for someone like me to grasp the idea of why anyone would decide to play and gamble with someone's emotions. Well, my heart seriously goes out to her.

Fast forward a few months later..Girl is happy and thankful that this so called love affair came to an end. She deserves waaayyyy better. Does she hate him? nope. hate is a strong emotion. She just truly hates what he does though. She wishes him well in all his endevours. Life is short.  Her prayer to him though is Grow up, stop playing games coz you hurting alot of females out there, and finally stop spending your times collecting stones while you let diamonds slip by.

The end!!!!!